Quote Originally Posted by bmccasland View Post
So I'm voting for going on the group ride, and you and your DH meet in the parking lot at the end. Riding within your skill/comfort level, or maybe pushing yourself a bit harder, will keep the peace between you.
My DH and I do this all the time. He takes the long route "with the boys" and I take the shorter route (with the ladies and the old men! ). We meet at the end.

I hope you did the ride...or plan to do it next week. You got some good advice from the women here. I won't state it again, but I think group rides are a great way to boost your riding confidence, get stronger, and meet a whole bunch of new folks....while having a darn good time in the process.