Sorry, Tuckerville for assigning the pregnancy label on you! Xeney, I agree, having your husband sit and mope with you won't help you. I had to be at home, resting for the last 6 weeks of one of my pregnancies. Let's just say that I was not a nice person. It was like one day I was at aerobics and lifting weights and working, the next day, locked in my house. So I can sympathize. This was before vcrs, so i spent my days reading and watching old movies on public TV. My friends had a rotating schedule of visiting me and then my mom came and stayed with me for a month, because I couldn't really run after my other son who was 2. I threw a plate at my husband because I was so pissed!!! Then, when I realized my 2 year old started crying because he had witnessed violence perpetuated by me, I snapped out of it and just counted the days until delivery.