I told my new guy on our first date that if I get near my goal weight, I'm going to spend $2,500 to $3,000 on a triathlon bike. He was a bit shocked at the price tag, but I figure I gotta get that out there right away that bikes cost more than $150.

I'm not married, but I can imagine being honest and up front about it -- for as long as possible before the actual purchase -- would be the way to go.