Church?

[Kitsune06]

I rarely post anymore, but I'll come out of lurkdom for this.

I'm a no-go for church. I've been to the local UU church and loved it, but felt also that I don't really need that type of community- just to touch on it now and again and reaffirm that yes, it's still there.

I was raised somewhat religiously, they were pretty relaxed, teaching me that it was okay to ask questions when I needed to know something. Obviously, the answers did not work for me, for reasons I don't wish to elaborate on right now.

I believe that we are all gods and goddesses in our own right and the will and the way of the universe is dictated through our own intentions and efforts. I'm not sure what 'category' that falls under, but really, I think all religions have a hint of truth in them... their main shortcomings are that they are perpetuated by people, with peoples' motivations, selective memories and natural us vs. them natures.

I believe that closed-mindedness is our single greatest hurdle spiritually. If we cannot rise above our native black and white to the world of grey that exists, we are no better than children. If we cannot find our way in this world of grey without someone dictating rules to us, we are weak and must find the strength in ourselves. If we cannot help our friends when they lose their way, then we will never be able to help ourselves. Finally, we are not our bodies. The body and the spirit influence each other, reflect one another, but they are not the same. After the body passes on, the spirit still exists, to what end, I don't know.

As far as sex goes, sex is the representation of will, passion, and desire. To me, lovemaking is spiritual, when you feel the bond you create with your lover... Sex is less so... the above representation...