you also might want to take her along - let her pick. Some of us women LOVE the womens jerseys - some of us the fit is too - ummmm - tight so we wear unisex or mens. I can give some on the shorts as long as the jersey fits and stays on my hips where it belongs!
oh - and by the way - what a neat guy! hope the 2 of you have fun!
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"