I was wondering how many of you use chamois butter and if so, what type. Which ones are safe for women to use? I don't want to end up with an infection. Also, what are some good cycling shorts? I've been looking at some Louis Garneau or a pair on aerotechdesigns.com. It think they are the plus size century short. I need a pair of shorts that are plus size, like a 1X or a 2X. Can you use all chamois butters on all cycling shorts, such as the gel padded or foam padded? Any help would be great!!!