This is a hard one to answer. When I was very young, elementary school, I played on softball teams (we were the Kool Katz!!), was in girl scouts (camping, hiking, etc), played basketball with my dad, learned to ski, that kind of thing. I wouldn't say I was athletic, but we're talking 10 years old.During elementary school, I started swim team. Swim team was at a private pool independent of school, and was a very different social structure -- it was also during the summer, when school was out.
When I got to middle school, swim team was easy to keep. Girls from different schools, different walks of life, albeit slightly privileged (you have to pay to be a member). I tried out for the basketball team and despite what I thought was talent, I was shut out, and here is where I learned about sports and cliques. Tried again in high school once, and gave up. Looking back, I should have tried out for softball, soccer, something... but the girls intimidated me. I also was an honors student in band, and you choose between physical activity and studying... studying won. That's how I ended up falling out of swim team, just too many pressures, and as girls got into high school it got more and more competitive, too. I was never the fastest, but I did swim anchor in many relays. I did stuff on my own... rollerblading, riding my bike, less so the older I got.
In college, I wish I would have done rugby, hockey, crew... so many "non-traditional" sports I could have done. The stigma just stuck with me, and I was afraid to try until it was too late. I walked everywhere though, so I was pretty "fit" in general. I really focused a lot on studying, and I burned myself out on it, too... then I got a "real job" and moved on. In the business of making software, there are not a lot of athletes...
I think I still carry some of that old baggage with me, but I've learned a lot better about setting goals for myself. I really enjoy swimming again (except my messed up shoulder), I love riding my bike, and I love the feeling after a run (maybe not so much the running, until I get into a groove, especially in LSD runs).



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During elementary school, I started swim team. Swim team was at a private pool independent of school, and was a very different social structure -- it was also during the summer, when school was out.
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I was ashamed ,and didnt know why I couldnt do it. After about 3 months of running 2 miles a day I quickly upped it to 5,6,7 miles 1 year later ran the Marathon...injured myself ,and bought a bike. Maybe thats why Im having trouble with balance ,and clipless. Im very un coordinated ,but its fun trying.
