Sounds like a country-western song;
I Ride Aloneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Anyway, I ride alone also. (actually it's me Cassie is talking about lolol)......I wouldn't mind riding with a club but 3 of the 4 clubs I know about in town are all racing clubs and the 4th one is a racing wannabe club. They don't have "no-drop" rides and while I agree riding with them would probably push my skills I'm A)not sure why I Want to push my skills and B)won't ride with a club that leaves ppl on the side of the road with a mechanical. (yup, they did it - twice, both times I was the only one that stopped and stayed with the person until the rider was back up and riding, good thing...the second time it happened the guy forgot his CO2 cylinders and needed to borrow my pump)
One thing I will say I've noticed tho (commuters can yea or nay say me on this): since I ride every day to work, my outlook on weekend rides does tend to be different than the weekend riders. Come Sat I've already ridden for 5 days so getting a ride in isn't as vital to me as it is to others.
For those of you that were wondering how to push yourself just a little further when riding alone: my suggestion would be to stop for a bit, have a bite to eat, maybe stretch your legs a tad and then hop back on the bike....I believe it'll help to push you past that point where you wanted to stop. The other thing I do is Tell people how far I'm riding, most of them want to know how my ride went and I would hate having to tell them I didn't ride the whole way! lol I also plan my ride so my halfway point is the farthest point from home, now the only way I can quit and go home - is to ride it back home.
I have enjoyed riding with Cassie and another friend I met on a club ride but I also really enjoy riding alone.
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"