I've gotten pretty serious about cycling this past year, participating in 40+ mile events. I've been using a gel seat to save my a__ and a very thin lycra (with underwear-I know) short. It actually feels and works fine, but I feel like i'm getting looks from everyone and i'm trying to look like less of an outsider.

The problem is I just CAN'T seem to get used to a regular bike short and not wearing underwear. I feel like i'm 13 again and wearing HUGE maxi pads and just generally feel "exposed."

What can I do? Is there a less bulky but effective short? How do you get used to going commando?

Help!