Ignorant People!!

[Running Mommy]

Ok, I know this isn't cycling related, but it is training related, and I think some of you will appreciate this.
So I'm out on my long run this morning cruising through the neighborhoods near my house. I come upon and older women walking her two Collies. I say hello to her and even greeted the dogs with a "hello pretty puppies". She smiles and says "Is it working?"... Umm, what is she talking about? So I say "excuse me?" and she replies "Is it working. Is running helping you lose weight?". Excuse my french here ladies but I was like WTF??!! So I replied with a rather snotty "I'm training for an IRONMAN". She replied "oh" and turned and walked down another pathway. Now I KNOW my reality, and reality is I am carrying around an extra 25-30 lbs, but who is she to make a comment like that? I've never seen this woman in my life! She may have well asked me if I was pregnant! I passed her again and I just glared at her. But it sure got my adrenaline going! I looked down at my gps and I was running a 9:50 min mile- OOPS! This is a LSD run kid, not speed work!
Anyway, I just had to share. People can be soo freaking RUDE sometimes! Oh- and BTW while she wasn't fat per se, but she had a few extra lb's in her trunk as well. I should have told her "yeah, maybe you should take up running to get rid of your extra baggage".. HA HA HA!

[Veronica]

People are clueless sometimes.

Would you run a few miles for me please? Runners just get my respect. Yeah I could swim the Ironman and I could bike the Ironman, but there is no way in h@ll I can run two miles let alone 26! And runners have great legs!

V.

[Running Mommy]

Sure I'll run a few for ya! I actually love running. Though my shoes died their final death today and I had to cut my long run short. planned 18, ran 11.2. When my knees start talking back to me I KNOW it's time to shut er down. Luckily my new shoes should be here today or tomorrow so next week will def. get 18 in. I just didn't want to push it in worn out shoes. I've had knee problems before, so when they bark- I listen.
Oh and here are some pic's of me and the family for reference. I need to get some new ones on there. When I bring home my new baby tomorrow I'll have my son take some pictures of us.

http://photobucket.com/albums/a157/tony66denise69/?sc=1

[bikerchick68]

oh... you are SO much nicer than I woulda been people ARE ignorant... she probably didn't mean anything by it but wtf? my favorite response when someone makes a comment like that is to stop, look at them and say "Now WHY would you say something hurtful like that?" and then wait for the answer!

you have a great looking family... and just where are those extra pounds you mentionerd??? you look fantastic!

oh... and don't run any miles for me... everything on me hurts just thinking about it!

[CorsairMac]

ROFLMAO - I would've said "I don't know...did it work for you??"

[Pedal Wench]

Not to throw water on your fire, but could she have been asking because you look more fit than she is? Sorry, I read her comment as complimentary, not insulting. Kinda like, "I wish I was motivated enough to do that - does it really work?"

[kaybee]

RM, first of all, I'd like to say that you have my utmost respect. I've been running for years, and, even though I love it, I KNOW that I could never run a marathon, much less to an Ironman. All I can say is "What a Woman!" I deal with people like that woman all the time. My office mates do not understand what is "fun" about running 6 miles at 5:30 a.m., when it's "cold" (maybe 30) and dark. Now that I'm also riding a bike, they REALLY think I'm a nut. My husband says they're secretly jealous because they can't (or won't) do it. Don't let ignorant people get to you, and when they do, just pop in here and we'll be happy to remind you how awesome you are!

KB

[Grog]

The comment was indeed rude. However, not to defend the lady but I think many people have a very limiting notion of "health" (and "fun" or "challenge"), think only weight loss and can't imagine exercising for any other reason. That's sad, but it's how it is... Hence the rude comment. (Did I say it was rude???!!!)

[Deanna]

I have to agree that it was rude. Fortunately my rudeness is kept in check by my inability to come up with a quick response to comments like that -- I come up with them about a block or two later.

[Nanci]

I think there is a large portion of the gen pop that only views running as a means of weight loss- not as a competitive, or fun, or leisure activity. It was most likely a compliment meant as a way to start a conversation.

Nanci

[Pedal Wench]

Yeah, I see it like if you're holding up a pill bottle in the drug store, and someone walks up and asks if it works. Or, if you're buying a cleaning product and someone asks if it works for you. They're not implying that you're filthy, they just see you doing something they don't anything about, and they're curious, or just trying to say 'something' nice. If she was smiling, I really can't imagine that she intentionally said something rude!

[Trekhawk]

The comment was indeed rude. However, not to defend the lady but I think many people have a very limiting notion of "health" (and "fun" or "challenge"), think only weight loss and can't imagine exercising for any other reason. That's sad, but it's how it is... Hence the rude comment. (Did I say it was rude???!!!)

I agree with Grog, a lot of people just cant imagine you would be out doing anything physical for fun or the challenge. They think all is exercise is inspired by a need to lose weight. Hey lets not tell them it can be fun though or we may have to fight our way through the crouds for a decent ride.