maybe put some electrical tape over the gear indicators for now so you get used to shifting based on feel and looking at the actual drivetrain, so you know more intimately what 2/5 means both in terms of your bike's mechanics and in terms of what that gear combination feels like.
I also found that getting a computer with cadence was a really helpful cue for shifting when I was starting out.
my major challenge was not so much learning what to shift when (oddly that seemed pretty intuitive to me), but wrapping my head around talking about it. it took me a good year to be able to talk about shifting down without getting confused, because downshifting in the rear cogs is actually accomplished by moving up the cogs, not down them, and vice versa. maybe I'm a bit of a freak though.