I do understand the whys of it, it's just SO frustrating. It was late, I had been looking on a lot of websites for some clothes and was really pissed off
Clothes shopping for me has always been difficult, even when I was thinner. I have no boobs, wide back, a small waist, and wider hips. Plus, I am long waisted and have no leg. I'm the exact same way when thinner (boobs are even smaller, oy!) so trying to find clothes that fit and look good has always been painful for me. And forget about trying to find a bra in my size. Ugh, I'm getting stressed just typing about clothing 
Thanks for all the replies, though, some of the links have some really cute stuff
"A bicycle does get you there and more. And there is always the thin edge of danger to keep you alert and comfortably apprehensive. Dogs become dogs again and snap at your raincoat; potholes become personal. And getting there is all the fun."