So true. When I first made pasta I had to throw about two batches out. I was trying to follow a recipe and being very exact about it. I got frustrated because the dough never felt right and never went through the pasta maker well. My family was standing around watching and finally I just gave up and said, "That's IT, I'm going to make it like a NONA would make it. Nonas don't need recipes!" So I looked at some basic proportions and made it on my counter with my hands. It was really great!
So now I generally use about 2 cups flour, a tablespoon or so of olive oil, a couple of eggs (either whole or just yolks to make it more rich), a pinch of salt, a bit of water if the dough is too dry.
I mix the flour and salt together, make a well in the flour on the counter, and add the wet ingredients into the well. I stir the wet ingredients with my fingers which pulls the flour in slowly until I can't mix it anymore. Then knead until it is soft and looks/feels "right." Let it rest for awhile, and then away you go!
Good luck! It's a fun process.