I was hoping to get feedback on how other women deal with a faster boyfriend/husband/SO. I have been riding for years, loving it, and never felt slow until now. I'm not racing material - but he seems to think I could achieve this with hard work. I have already broken 2 arms trying to keep up with him - I just can't seem to realize his pace or skill level - especially at my age (48). I refuse to break any thing else - so I am dropping further and futher behind, despite training. I would appreciate any suggestions!