Bike Shopping- day 3- the freak out (long)

[SouthernBelle]

li10up, that could simply be your bars and/or levers or even your stem. Do you have the original bars, etc on your bike? I've put a shorter stem which helps and just last night won some salsa poco bars on ebay. I'll be glad to report back on what difference they make. Some day I'll get short reach shifters as I have stubby little fingers.

Mimi, I'll loan you my mechanic.

[Kallisti]

Ok, this is another clue that my bike in some ways is too big for me. When I'm in the drops I can't reach the break levers very well.

Not that I mind...

But you should mind. This is going to put you in a funny position when you need to grab the brakes; your hand will be in a position that is too open, and therefore tense. You may not need a new bike, as this could be because the throw (the distance between the handlebar and the brake lever), is too long for you. That's what it sounds like anyway. This can possibly be fixed by shims in the brake levers, or new brake levers
It could also be stem length, which is also an easy fix (new stem).
The reason why I say that you should mind is that over time, overextending your reach can cause unnecessary pain in the back, shoulders and forearms. If you have an LBS that you trust, there shouldn't be a problem about asking them for help in adjusting the throw and/or stem length. It's well worth it in the long run.

[7rider]

Amy,
I'm just going to echo what many of these fine ladies have said.
You DO deserve a great bike - to support your awesome accomplishments and goals and because you are awesome yourself. Congratulations!
Many folks here started with a hybrid and moved on to a road bike. I made that step - involuntarily - when my hybrid was stolen and I bought a road bike with the insurance claim. Although I had a hybrid because of my bad back, I never regretted getting a road bike for a second.
I don't think you can go wrong with a properly made custom bike. A friend of mine rides a Serrota. He loves it. It's a wonderful bike and will give you many years of blissful rides. And...a Serrota has the added benefit of being eye-candy. Beautiful!
Enjoy your bike! Post pictures when you get it so we can all drool over it!

[anakiwa]

Go for it! (As long as you think you're going to stick with cycling.)

If you have the money it's more than worth it to be on a bike that's comfortable (and you're probably more likely to stick with it if the bike fits).

And just don't tell your friends what it costs- if they're not into cycling they probably haven't ever heard of Serotta and wouldn't have clue that a bike could cost $4000.

[Trekhawk]

It is very tough giving myself permission to do this. It is bringing up a lot of issues for me about what I "deserve," whether if people see me, a crappy beginner out there on this beautiful high-end bike they're going to think I'm ridiculous....that in itself is ridiculous. I'm 45 years old, I can do what I like!

LOL - you sound like me. Last year my husband told me he wanted to buy me an eternity ring and I told him diamonds are nice but I would prefer a new bike. Well long story short he said get the bike of your dreams so I did a beautiful Colnago. Now I loved my new bike but felt just like you what would people think when they see how slow I ride. Well I was out riding one day and an older fit looking gentlemen cruises up next to me we start talking and he says beautiful bike. Now here I go again with the guilt and I say Im endeavouring to deserve it. He laughed and said you are out riding you sure do deserve it. Anyway it helped me to stop worrying about what others think because most of the time they are not thinking anything except hey nice bike. Cyclists love eye candy.

Happy riding and dont forget to post some pics when you get your new baby.

[pooks]

Go for it! (As long as you think you're going to stick with cycling.)

If you have the money it's more than worth it to be on a bike that's comfortable (and you're probably more likely to stick with it if the bike fits).

And just don't tell your friends what it costs- if they're not into cycling they probably haven't ever heard of Serotta and wouldn't have clue that a bike could cost $4000.

Exactly what I was going to say!

I'm still on a hybrid but I hope to someday ride enough and be confident enough and have reason enough to switch! Meaning, I'm not speaking from experience so take my opinion for what it's worth.

But you said it yourself -- you can afford it. Hey, that pretty much answers your question right there! Why feel guilty when you indulge in something you can afford?

And as for what will people say? None of their business. So if you want to tell them, you can, but if you don't want to, why would you? If somebody tries to pin you down, don't forget -- JUST BECAUSE SOMEBODY ASKS DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO ANSWER.

You can come up with a funny or polite or rude response in advance if it makes you feel better. Or just shrug and say, "I don't remember -- I could easily afford it so I wrote the check and rode off and haven't thought about it since."

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

You can come up with a funny or polite or rude response in advance if it makes you feel better. Or just shrug and say, "I don't remember -- I could easily afford it so I wrote the check and rode off and haven't thought about it since."

Just tell them you bought it with all the money you weren't spending on cigarettes anymore.

[Blueaegis]

$4,000 sounds like crazy money for a bike, but think about the health benefits and joy it brings you.

People spend that amount on a dining room set that they never eat on or jewlery they never wear!

Just think about the smile on your face when you finish every club ride!

[Crankin]

When someone asks me how much my Kuota costs (hasn't happened very often) I just laugh and say "a lot!" Just like someone said, if you can afford it, why feel guilty. I also felt that I didn't deserve the bike I have, sort of like a poseur, but guess what? Mostly people say "Cool bike," or something else nice. I get nice comments from really fast younger guys who normally wouldn't say anything to me as they whiz by.

[DarcyInOregon]

Hi Amy, I purchased my road bike about four months ago. I love it. I went from a hybrid to the road bike, following the same path as others before me.

I just want you to know that I have back problems too, which is arthritis in the spine and two bad disks. When I injure the back again, like in a fall, and the sciatic nerve becomes inflamed, and I have nasty pain, I can still bike. That is how good the road bike is for a bad back.

Regarding the cost, everyone on this forum is a different age and a different level of income, so would have a different perspective as to the cost of your bike. I paid about $3500 for my Trek Pilot 5.2 WSD, which was the bike plus some extras, and the LBS was happy for the cash transaction. I didn't think the bike was too expensive, not for me anyway, but yes, if I was in college or still at an age where I was paying off the mortgage, then that amount would cause me some anguish. But I am 53, with zero debts, and a solid income flow, so the bike was not expensive for me. That is how you need to look at it. And like others said, this money will be the best money you ever spent. Until you decide you want one of the $20,000 bikes.

Another thing I might mention is I had the LBS put on additional brake levers on the straight part of the bar. With my bad back, I don't have any flexibility in the spine, and in going down the long descents, having the brakes up closer gives me more control without making my spine stretch so that the hands can remain near the brakes. It makes perfect sense for me because I have no desire to race or compete or train with others. I am a rural rider and I ride solo most of the time. Additional brake levers might make sense for you too, though you are an urban club rider. There are a lot of hills where you live.

Please post a photo of the bike when you get it.

Darcy

[emily_in_nc]

$4,000 sounds like crazy money for a bike, but think about the health benefits and joy it brings you.

And think about how much less it is than a new car. That's what I tell my co-workers when their jaws drop over the price of my bikes. I tell them that all four of my bikes, including my $3500 Aegis Swift, all add up to less than one stinkmobile!

Emily

[Geonz]

Welp, I'm going to toss aside judgements of "having too much when others don't have enough" because that's a totally different issue.

You have money to spend on yourself. The LBS has been really, really supportive, right? Getting a nice bike from them would do them good, too. There isn't a cheaper alternative that will do just as well - that's what makes a purchase unreasonable in my book. This could also -and I'm not just rationalizing - be cheaper than medical equipment/treatments you won't need later because you've got the right fitness equipment now.

I'd make sure I really *could* afford it... but then I'd do it. (I "needed" that blender, myself - *nothing* does the same thing!)

[DarcyInOregon]

Another thing, use this forum to meet other ladies for bike outings. It is a lot of fun. However, it is normal to not have any biking friends. None of my friends bike at all, except for the friends I made on TE. My spouse doesn't bike because he is an invalid with brain damage due to a massive stroke some years ago; he never biked anyway. That is the wonderful thing about having a bicycle, and that is you can get on it and go. You don't have to be with anyone in order to enjoy yourself thoroughly.

Also, I love the event rides. Go to this url and see how many event rides you can participate in this summer:

http://www.bikeride.com/calendar/events.asp

I like the event rides so much I am going to travel to some, like the Daffodil Ride in La Conner, Washington, in April.

Darcy

[ace]

Thanks, Darcy, and everyone else. I feel much better.

I would love to meet some of you wonderful women. I've seen info about a couple of NoCal rides posted, but I was afraid I was too slow.

I rode with my local bike club, the Oakland Yellowjackets, last summer and fall (and will do so again when the season starts in April) and am currently training for the Cinderella with the Fremont Freewheeler's training series (and I got into the Cindy). Then in May I have a 3 week vacation in Italy planned, a week of which is a supported bike trip in Tuscany. So I definitely have some biking planned.

But I'd still like to bike with the women from this board, as long as the rides aren't too tough. But now they all know I'm getting a $4000 bike!!

Just kidding.

[mimitabby]

But I'd still like to bike with the women from this board, as long as the rides aren't too tough. But now they all know I'm getting a $4000 bike!!

Just kidding.

I love what Pooks said; if anyone asks you how much it cost, just blow them off; you forgot already.

Ace, all I can say is; you're not alone!
and Trekhawk, how WONDERFUL that you got a Colnago instead of a stupid diamond ring!! I'm glad your DH understood and got you something that would improve your life instead of .. well, whatever it is that diamonds do.