Hi! New to the forum and so glad I found you all!
Lisa S.H. ...There are some good chapters in the book The Art of Urban Cycling which discuss how America came to be a nation of automobile worshippers...
I recently started Asphalt Nation which takes a more in depth look at how the car took over the road (and how we can reclaim it). I also recommend How To Live Well Without Owning A Car which really helped me make the decision to go car-lite (and eventually - fingers crossed - car-free) through a combo of cycling and bus riding. The book has a Car Cost Calculator that my bf put online that lets you calculate how much your car costs you (or conversely, how much you can save by relying on your bike for transportation!).
The more we are free from nonnecessities, the more we are free to do the more meaningful actions of our lives. - Stephen R. Covey