Having been married once many moons ago, I realize you give up quite a bit of control over your space during marriage, co-habitation, etc. However, I still believe understanding and abiding by each others needs and desires boils down to how much respect you have for one another. How much respect you will receive from your mate can be seen, often, by how much respect they give others. I can understand some things happening as a playful event sometimes but habitual negligence reflects lack of respect. Sounds kinda' harsh but that's the way I think and probably why I will remain single.
I have no desire to marry a man who will have no regard for how much they burden me with things they should be doing for themselves. After all, running a household isn't up to just one person, at least that was per my mother during my formative years. We all had chores around the house, which she said was training for life so we'd know how to pull our weight in society, once we left the nest.




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