My situation is a convinced him to get a bike with me. We both have bikes but I have more time (and I'm pretty sure) determination to ride. Four or five miles in the morning before work would suit him just fine. I'm the one pushing to do the 40-mile livestrong, and he thinks it's way too much.

Sigh.

I have a feeling I may be ready for the 40 and he won't, and it will bruise his ego if I do it w/o him. Plus I don't want to do it w/o him. So I may end up doing the 10 and then having him tell everybody that I came to my senses.

Grrrr.