hi, all. i had the same problem as you, gretchen-- i think. i had pain from where the saddle nose met my body-- definitely girly-parts territory! i bought a saddle with the nose cut-out, recommended for pain in that area. now i have soreness (more like post-ride annoyance) where the edge of the cutout meets my body, which is kinda where girly parts meets thigh (hard to explain!
) but it's definitely better than the numbness and pain before! it kinda feels like the sore-butt thing, when i was just starting to ride and my body was just suddenly getting used to the bike under me for that long.
i've been wearing the same shorts for a while now, but i noticed that the chamois is now a little stiffer. if that was happening to all shorts, i imagine they'd start to chafe eventually, just from age. i also notice that i shift around a lot on my saddle and have to remind myself to scooch back on to my sit-bones constantly.
one time my chamois was still wet from washing when i wanted to bike to work. undaunted, i wore sweats and regular underwear, oh, the horror!
there was much chafing and bunching. never again!
i also highly recommend going commando simply because it's very liberating!
i have bought two saddles so far, and the second seems to be working so far. this is one of those cases of 'try and try again,' unfortunately.
btw, thanks all. this thread has been very informative!
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