I'm using the men's fly and am really undecided. I got it on the theory that I could return it for credit if I didn't like it, but then I got it all muddy ... repeatedly... and there's no way they will ever take it back now.
On non-technical, uphill stuff, I still get crunched in front; I figure that's because I'm not moving around on the saddle enough. The first more technical ride I've done in a while, though, the saddle felt great. Unfortunately, I haven't ridden that trail recently enough to remember how it felt on my old saddle.
Oh well. If it doesn't work out, I may give this saddle to my husband and try .... um, something else, I guess. I'm thinking of the damselfly, since that's nice and narrow.