Too bad! There's nothing worse than a miserable saddle! I actually went to a recumbent bikes in the years prior to saddles with cutouts because I swore I could never get comfortable on an upright bike. My girly bits got rubbed raw and it would hurt to pee or wash for a couple of days after a ride!
Have you tried a regular old Terry Butterfly saddle? That's the saddle that finally enabled me to ride upright in comfort. They're a smidge too wide for my sitbones, but I rode them for a couple of years and many thousands of miles mostly very satisfied. I've now switched to narrower Performance Contour saddles, and my latest find (recommended here), the Selle San Marco Atola Gelaround, but when I have laid off the bike for awhile, I always prefer to start back with a Butterfly as it is more cushy. Once my sitbones toughen up again, I can go back to the narrower, firmer saddles!
Good luck with your next try, and if you haven't tried a Terry Butterfly and do prefer a wider saddle, maybe give it a try.
Emily
Emily
2011 Jamis Dakar XC "Toto" - Selle Italia Ldy Gel Flow
2007 Trek Pilot 5.0 WSD "Gloria" - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow
2004 Bike Friday Petite Pocket Crusoe - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow