"I took the bike in after the first month which was a bit over a 100miles as they told me to and the guy at the shop said "It's so clean, did you even ride this?" Jerk."

I would have had the same reaction! What a jerk. Sometimes it takes a few shops to find one where they don't mind answering questions, and they're not only sales people and mechanics but teachers as well. I know I went through 3 different LBS before I settled on one. It could also be that particular person... don't be afraid to ask for someone else.