Hiya
I have a Terry butterfly saddle and I like it. I do have to admit it took me longer to get used to it than the Terry Liberator gel I have on my other bike. But I got it last season when I got my new bike and I had to do some adjusting to get it comfy. But now I just hopped on my bike and rode about 15 miles the other weekend after being off of it for 4 months and I wasn't sore. So I guess as has been said, we're all different. I'm sorry it's being a PITA for you.
"Only the meek get pinched, the bold survive"