I haven't shaved my legs since i was 13 years old (I'm 54 now) and I have less hair now than i did then; i am not a hairy person. I don't own a rasor.
If you looked REALLY hard at the backs of my calves you could find a dozen dark hairs on each leg. Not worth dealing with.

I think women that don't shave shouldn't have to. If a guy dared to tell me what to do about shaving I'd dump him.
Same goes the other way too. If hubby wants to grow a beard, that's his perogative.

Fortunately for me, he's not hairy either (our 25 year old son still doesn't have enough hairs to shave regularly)
So hair is not an issue with us.

But I agree with the gals that are implying there might be link between hairlessness (shaving) and appearing infantile to please a guy!! yuck!