I have one cure for fair weather-itis... Sign up for an Ironman! There are two things in play there.. If you don't do the distance in training, you won't make it to the finish line AND you paid nearly 500.00 that you'd be out!
I was forced to do some long rides in 20 degree weather last year, and I'm a cold weather WEENIE! Which of course explains why I live in Phoenix Az!! ha ha
Being in the desert we pretty much always have wind. I don't much notice it anymore unless it's well over 15 mph. I guess that's a good thing.