I took a look at the Bicycling Bliss website and liked it a lot. I'm sure it won't be everyone's cup of tea but Portia seems to speak my language. I emailed her about falling and subsequent fear - she sent a very helpful answer the next day.

I also have a book called Chris Sidewell's Complete Bike Book, put out by DK publishing. I find it the language very clear, even to a total novice - and there are many good photos showing technique (often using women riders )