Quote Originally Posted by Lise
KSH: I hear ya. I think I got the female version of your ex! But she's a Buddist now, so all is ok in her world. Except that I'm still paying off the debts. As my sister said, "You're the one willing to stand up and take responsibility for your actions. Be proud of that." Hang in there. Sometimes you chew off a bit of your tail to get out of a trap. L.
You know what ticks me off? Is that these people... can come into someone's lives... screw them over and then walk off without even a care about what they have done.

Did she try to make ammends with you after becoming a Buddist? Or is that how she made herself feel good what she did?

Yea... we are the good ones... taking the responsiblity. But it's just so WRONG that they can just move on... not look back... and not care or try to correct what they have done wrong. Or even own up to what they have done. I even got written proof from the girl he cheated on me with... and I sent it to him... he proceeded to tell me it was a lie. And I knew it wasn't. He even told other people that I made up that story with her to make him look bad.???

For some reason I think if I could confront him about what he did to me over the course of 5 years...I might let it all go?!

When we broke up... he just left... and that was it. We never discussed anything. And, I set it up that way... because I didn't want him thinking he would ever have a shot at coming back.

Shoot...even after he left... he tried to screw me with his car insurance bill by trying to pull a fast one when I told him to change his address and get it in his name... but he told the company he still lived with me. I promptly called and gave them his Mom' address.

Anways... I could go on and on (as I am sure MANY women on this board could! Who here hasn't been screwed over by an ex?)... I guess in the end though, I just wonder, "What have I done to deserve this" (Pet Shop Boys song), and I wonder why there are some people in this world who are allowed to make messes everywhere they go... and continue on with their lives as if they did nothing wrong.