RM--gotta say--I really agree with KSH about the phone calls. Not OK. What if you were calling about your son? What if you needed his help, had been in an accident, etc? You two are partners, parents. Adults need to rise above the tide of emotions and take care of their committments.

And yeah. My ex was fooling around when she "worked late" and wouldn't tell me where she was going. Ironically, fooling around with the woman she left to be with me six years prior. Yuck.