[QUOTE! Why didn't anyone tell me?" I don't know. There are a jillion 'what-to-expect-now-that-you're-engaged' books out there. Relationships are hard, but if you still believe in Cinderella romances and outcomes, you're too naive to get married, imho. [/QUOTE]

Yeah...I mean when all is said and done at the end of the day a relationship is between 2 sentient beings.