Oh, Denise, I am so sorry to hear about this. To have him just be gone like that. Gentle thoughts for the whole family.

I see cute guys on bikes sometimes, but if they're not wearing helmets, I think they also look stupid. Your story just goes to show it isn't only the mean streets of Chicago. One time I was driving with my then 5 year old nephew. He was looking at a motorcyclist in the next lane. "Aunt Lise", he said, "That guy isn't very smart. He doesn't have a helmet on." So glad that message is stuck in his head.