Brandi, glad to hear that your DH is fine, I been to California and know how cold the ocean water can get. Although, I dont think that your wishing to be alone for a bit played any role in what happened to your husband. Its only natural to want some space from time to time, you are your own person and some selfish time for yourself is only good for your being. So, relax and I am sure there will be much safer ways to get a day for yourself.