I think it depends on what you have that you DO do together.

I'm a little more crazed about biking than he is, ,but he introduced me to it. We both ski, He's crazed about whitewater and I barely can handle it. We have different house hobbies, I sew he does woodworking, but we garden and do projects together. I think he's going to get crazed about SCUBA.

hmm, it looks like we do more together than not together. I guess I'm no much help.

...never mind....

Irulan