Man o man, so sorry to hear about all this coming one thing right after another, Blueberry! I would be frustrated too!
I'm especially sorry to hear about your Bike Fridays being damaged by TSA.
We shipped ours to and from Mexico with nary a glitch, and both times our suitcases were inspected by TSA. We felt very, very fortunate. There's just no excuse for that whatsoever!
I hope that you will get some reimbursement, but you will have to be very persistent. Whatta royal pain when you don't need yet another thing on your plate.
I hope your DH's healing will continue -- sounds like it has been a long haul for him. 
Virtual hugs to you... <3
Emily
2011 Jamis Dakar XC "Toto" - Selle Italia Ldy Gel Flow
2007 Trek Pilot 5.0 WSD "Gloria" - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow
2004 Bike Friday Petite Pocket Crusoe - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow