I decided not to go. And instead sort of clean up my place because I've invited a friend tomorrow evening.

I think this is partially to justify the membership fees for this club and give the aura of specialness. There's even a restaurant that only members can go to. Now that is not a good business model in revenue generation.

I'm certain at the expensive yacht clubs in Vancouver, they allow jeans and sneakers...since Vancouver is a little more laid back. The city after all, with one of the most expensive homes on real estate market in North America.

To me these days, as long as a person is clean, organized in their attire and not revealing in buttcrack, décolletage at a group meeting, fine by me. I used to be fussier. But a great charismatic, conscientious and dynamic worker shines through. Yes, I prefer to wear a skirt or dress pants when at group meetings or presenting/training. Last wk., I bought and wore my first business dress in the last 8 yrs: it was a jean material full dress with a soft waist sash. So, I guess, still not dressy enough. I procrastinated when reduced to $90.00., then at $60.00 I couldn't resist. It's a timeless piece I could wear for next few years.

When 8 yrs. from retirement, it's hard for me to justify spending $150.00 on a business dress.

I agree Rebecca in female dominant groups, there's less male negativity and certainly in my opinion, how the guy behaves professionally amongst many female professionals/co-workers, is more important than looking too formal.