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    Quote Originally Posted by ny biker View Post
    I've enjoyed getting into the details of the kitchen and bathroom work, with the cabinet diagrams and the tile designs. But I didn't inherit a natural ability to actually do the work. I would figure it out eventually, I think, but would have to fix too many mistakes and probably a few disasters along the way. And I don't have the patience for that.
    When I was helping the wood worker he wanted me to see the design of what was being built and went through the sequence of steps to the end…..and then he would let me help him on the project. He taught me to think through beginning to end, a few times, before I start….and to expect the unexpected but with a positive attitude. The planning part did help a lot on the remodel we did though.……still mistakes, but hey I just adjusted and learned, well sometimes maybe with a flash of crazy too
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    Dear Michael….it’ll be interesting to see if your attitude changes because of this…..i doubt it but there is always hope.

    I was doing some work in San Onofre this past week. Michael is one of the people I work with each time I come. He’s the ‘and why aren’t you attracted to me’ type with overtones of misogyny…..and why someone would think that’s a good attitude escapes me. He talked a few times about his bicycling prowess after I told him I ride a little bit…..long story short he actually wanted to race me on a 12 mile stretch of a really nice quiet side road along the coast starting at the work site. After a few taunts over the last few times there I finally said sure and this time I brought my bike and we did it. I had enough time at the finish to drink some water and do some stretches before he showed up. I was gracious and kind in thanking him for the challenge.

    i'm kinda glad this contract is finished in January
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    Love it, Rebecca! You brought a smile (gracious, not taunting, I hope) to my face this morning. Okay, I'm actually giggling.

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    That is flat out funny, good job Rebecca!

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    Dear downstairs neighbor,

    I'm in my living room, as far as I can be from my bathroom, and the smoke from your barbecue grill under my bathroom window is burning my throat despite having the door closed since before you started cooking. I'm pretty sure your grill location violates local law, and I've decided to rat you out.

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    Dear MacBook:
    If you had told me your hard drive was failing, I could have ordered a replacement SSD weeks ago. And started backups to my new Time Capsule.

    PS If you had told me how bad things are, I could have paid Amazon to hurry up. But I see that you are still in denial: You still claim the S.M.A.R.T. status is "verified". That's not very smart!
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    Awesome story, rebeccaC |-D What was he actually expecting, anyway... to beat you, and you be all impressed and happy about it?
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    for me it was just about riding a really hard effort on a nice scenic road without much traffic...he was kinda irrelevant....
    I see the ‘Michael’s’ as helping me learn more about dealing with the separation of personality and work…..works for me

    Dear El Nino

    After two days of commuting in cold very windy rain your beginning is noted.
    I’ve got a feeling your going to give me some interesting rides this winter. Looking forward to the adventures! After my ride home yesterday though I was thinking I’m going to need lots of chocolate for the hot chocolates that will be needed to get through this. I’ll send you the receipts for reimbursement.

    rebecca
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    us to decide which ones we want to choose and feed”… Pema Chodron

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    Quote Originally Posted by rebeccaC View Post

    Dear El Nino

    After two days of commuting in cold very windy rain your beginning is noted.
    I’ve got a feeling your going to give me some interesting rides this winter. Looking forward to the adventures! After my ride home yesterday though I was thinking I’m going to need lots of chocolate for the hot chocolates that will be needed to get through this. I’ll send you the receipts for reimbursement.

    rebecca
    Indeed. I saw video of flooded highways in southern California on the news. I hope they're getting the word out to not try to drive on flooded roads -- all sorts of bad things can happen.

    Perhaps TE still has some good rain gear in stock? You can probably get a good deal if they haven't moved to the new warehouse yet.

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    Some areas of southern ca are going to have problems with a lot of rain over a few days like what happens during an el nino winter, especially those areas that also had fire damage last summer. The areas I live/travel in/work/ride in have a good infrastructure to deal with it though. I have some good rain gear and kinda welcome the different riding these next few months might bring…..and the center of a good storm can have a couple days of great riding!!!!

    I’m sure the rei's here are doing well in selling rain gear this year ….and we need to think a little more about the bike room at work

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    Quote Originally Posted by ny biker View Post
    Indeed. I hope they're getting the word out to not try to drive on flooded roads -- all sorts of bad things can happen.
    as i rode to work the first morning i actually was remembering how deep some of the pot-holes, especially the alley ones, were
    Last edited by rebeccaC; 01-07-2016 at 08:15 PM.
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    us to decide which ones we want to choose and feed”… Pema Chodron

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    Talked to my brother in San Diego. It's bad there... thankfully, his home is OK, but one street away, flooding, 2 feet of water running in the street and into driveways.
    We had "100 year" floods 2 years in a row, in Phoenix, in 1979 and 1980. It was hell. The bridge over 1-10 was washed out, I had to leave for work at 5 AM and leave an hour early to get home in 2-3 hours, for 6 weeks, the second time. The first year, I lived/worked on the same side of the river (normally a dry wash), but I couldn't go anywhere else, including to my parents' 4 miles away, outside of Tempe. I hope the infrastructure is better today because the rain is heading east.
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    I remember those Crankin- I wasn't living in Phoenix but worked on the Colorado River as a field biologist and we would go over to Tempe where our project was based- trying to get around to get paperwork done before a birding trip to Mexico and I remember it was a mess.
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