Emily, I am hoping at their age, it is nothing unsolvable. But, the good thing is, that in MA, it's mandated for insurance to pay for IVF. Not sure how that got passed, but we do have the oldest average maternal age in the country, thanks to all of those super educated women who come here for grad school, medical school, and law school. We are seeing them Sunday, so maybe they will tell us more. DS was basically asking me what had actually happened in my first pregnancy, the year before he was born. He knew I had a baby girl, but not what had happened. I had the flu when I was 4 weeks pregnant, and she was born at 8 months, with Potter's Syndrome (no kidneys). Exposure to high body temperatures can cause this. Not genetic, but we did go for genetic testing and I found I am a carrier for Tay Sachs, but nothing more. I told him he and his brother are apparently, normal.
I finally went to the doctor today. Actually, to the Minute Clinic. I do have a sinus infection AND allergic conjunctivitis. I knew it wasn't my contacts, causing the eye itch. Really feel like sh!t and I probably should not have spent 2.5 hours at the new gym and go out to lunch with DH. But, I am on an antibiotic and some kind of eye drops, so I am hoping to feel better tomorrow.
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Yikes, and conjunctivitis is very contageous, so you may have spread some germs at the gym. I try NEVER to rub my eyes in case of something like that being on a surface. Glad you went to the doc and hope you feel much better soon!
In our case, the infertility was male-factor. My DH went through varicocele surgery, but it really didn't help, which is why we eventually tried IVF with ICSI. I remember even way back then, 1997, it was paid for in Mass! But we paid out of pocket, and it was very expensive.
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Well, I wiped down everything, and there was no way I could have known, as I am not having the traditional symptoms of eyes pink and crusted together. Both of my kids had this so badly when they were little, I'd know it! The inside of my bottom eyelids did look red, but what do I know? And, I used my own yoga mat, at the class I went to.
Not feeling that much better today, but the body aches are traditional for me as I get better. My nose actually hurts less, eyes a bit better. If I don't see a change by Tuesday, I will go to my regular doctor. So far, the probiotics have avoided the stomach distress from the Doxycycline.
Sitting watching DH put together a new TV unit at the condo. He wanted to get it done. Backsplash getting done next Friday, then entry and bathroom floors the next Monday. Our painter starts this week, too. After that, it's just order some shades and deal with the bathtub walls.
Someone is actually coming to see our house today, not at an open house. We've lowered the price as far as we will go.
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Oh, I know you didn't know you had conjunctivitis, so no criticism implied -- and it sounds like you were much more conscientious than most folks would have been anyway. It's one of those hindsight is 20-20 kind of things.
On the yoga mat thing, I happened to read an article just this week about how germy communal mats are. I sweat like a fiend, so I always, always bring my own mat. I wouldn't subject my worst enemy to that, but I also don't want to be subjected to anyone else's secretions, bacteria, virii, etc.
Crossing fingers on the folks coming to see your house. As they always say, it only takes one to make a sale, so hope this is your one!
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Crankin, hope you feel better soon! I don't think allergic conjunctivitis is contagious? I had a bout with it two years ago that nearly crusted my eye shut, I was sure it was infected, but the doctor took one look and said it was allergic. I never realized that my eyes were pretty much gummy all the time with allergies, until I started using the eye drops she prescribed. Contact lenses last longer, too.![]()
Hope your son and daughter-in-law can get some answers and a plan. Good luck with the house!
I have a Gaiam travel yoga mat, which is just a thin piece of fabric that's rubberized on one side and napped fabric on the other. It folds into a small square, and it's great for practicing on hotel carpet, or for laying on top of a public mat at a studio if I don't want to carry my own regular mat. I sweat so much that a regular sticky mat turns into a slip'n'slide as soon as things get strenuous, so I usually use it with the absorbent microfiber side up, though it can be a little slippery if my hands are dry to start. Plus, it's machine washable! Mine lasted several years before it finally delaminated, and I got a new one right away. Apparently they're discontinued now, but Amazon still has them in stock.
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You read my mind, Oak. I just started searching for a new yoga mat. I don't sweat that much at yoga, compared to cycling, but the one I have is bright blue and the carrier strap is cheap. The strap for the other one is already broken. Plus, despite cleaning, it still smells. I will consider that one.
The money I spent to go back to my club was validated when I saw an employee cleaning the public stretching area mats twice, during the time I was in that area. Also, they clean the locker room (showers, too) every hour. And, it was the same employee that was there when I joined in 1998.
Emily, I didn't think you were accusing. I pretty much thought allergic conjunctivitis is not contagious. The NP did not give me any dire warnings about that. Had a bad experience with DS#1, when he turned up having conjunctivitis on the day he was scheduled for an allergy consult, shortly after we moved here. DH took him and said the doctor was a prissy little idiot who totally freaked out over the conjunctivitis! I never forgot that. It took weeks to get that appointment...
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You're right -- I was thinking of viral conjunctivitis, which is extremely contagious. The allergic variety should not be. My mistake!
Those "mat toppers" (what I call 'em anyway) are great. Our instructors at the yoga studio have them, but I couldn't find one here in Mexico and didn't have room in my luggage to bring one with me from the US, so I have to use a towel on top of my mat as a poor substitute. I hate the towel because it bunches up and leaves lint on my clothes, but I deal with it.. When I first started doing yoga here, I had no idea how much I would sweat, but quickly found that it was downright dangerous to go without a towel on my mat as my feet and hands would slide out from under me from the sweat. Practicing in a hot/humid climate, I sweat buckets, as much as a bike ride on a hot day.
ETA: There are actually even more types of conjunctivitis than I was aware of. An interesting read: http://www.allaboutvision.com/condit...itis-types.htm
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