BlessedB--I have been having what sounds like the exact same feeling, only mine is on the left!! I have been researching for weeks, just yesterday I ordered a Selle Anatomica X series. The X is for riders over 160 or someone riding 100+ miles a week. My road bike is a Specialized and so was my saddle. I had a bike fit last year, and I did move to a narrower Specialized saddle last May. Still the same problem but was a little bit better. It should be here this week, and I will let you know how I like it! Good luck!!