Hugs to everyone feeling isolated. Add me to the group!

I work weekends, overnight (Fri-Sun), and Mon-Thurs are spent doing my online coursework for grad school. I literally have no interaction besides work, and even there it's hard to "make friends" as everyone has their own lives going on. I'm viewed as an outcast, being in my late 30's with no spouse or kids. I feel like it's very hard to relate to others my age because I don't fit the "mold". I moved here for the weather/environment and haven't been able to meet a single soul. I'm pretty introverted as well, and find when I try to socialize, at the end of the night I just want to melt into a puddle a la the Wicked Witch. I've tried meetup groups, but in my limited exposure, it seems as if the groups I've joined attract the dregs of society. I miss my church from the NW, but can't attend church here as services are Sunday AM, when I'm asleep after having worked all night. I really need some community outreach and don't know where to turn. I fear if things continue as they are, I'm going to end up a very lonely, miserable person. Not at all what I want.