Keeping possessions to a minimum

[Crankin]

I hate clutter and I am sure my children hate me for being a Nazi about keeping everything picked up and in its place. We just don't let things pile up. We've only had one house out of 5 with a basement, so that helped! However, I have been married for just about 35 years. We have a lot of stuff, just not clutter. DH has tons of tools, little things for household work. But, they key is, it's all organized in appropriate containers. We have a couple of junk drawers in places, but it would take me like 15 miutes to purge them.
I am not sentimental, either, but I have thrown out a few things that I wished I hadn't, and I knew I would regret it as I was throwing them out. These were more memento types of things, not valuables, or junk. Our next move will be downsized. We seriously will need a storage place, as DH has a whole workshop/bikeshop in our utility room/laundry area. This is what's stopping us from buying a townhouse without a basement. We may end up with a small house. Heck, where would we put our bikes and all the gear that goes with them? We also have a lot of kitchen stuff. That will be gone through, but there's not that much that we don't use.
My current house has lots of cabinets and storage closets, as well as our bike shed (really a garden shed) and a storage loft above the garage. We've cleaned out the storage loft, as it mostly had my older son's junk, and when *he* bought a house, we made him rent a truck and come get it! We also got rid of all of old text books from college. I've moved 5 times, including once across the country, and we are extrememly quick at packing/organizing/unpacking. You can't be like that if you have a lot of junk.

[shootingstar]

Mementos:

Take interesting pictures of these items, make into a scrapbook, even an e-book; donate or sale original items. Presto. Mementos saved. Clutter gone.

I've actually taken photos of my better art work for my blog and I just post it. A painting has already been gifted. Not sure if sis has seen her gift online...since the whole world can see it online. Another justification for having a blog with some text...interesting/better e-photos to share...and also text to explain the photos. By the way, a blog can be made private and blogger can provide password access to family members. Or the whole blog can be turned into an e-book. (except slideshows don't work well ..yet).

I actually look at my personal blog...similar to looking at a favourite photo album..it is the best of stuff on specific topics and experiences!

[OakLeaf]

I'm kind of like Pax's brother, I guess. We didn't move quite as much as a military family, but often enough, and without the solidarity that comes from knowing other kids in similar circumstances. And with my family situation, the only stability or security I had came from things. Combine that with the influence of my mom, who grew up in even more chaotic circumstances (three continents and two wars before she was 12, fabulous wealth to grinding poverty) and her tendency to conserve lest all the rest is taken away ... let's just say that in a few decades I might be far enough in therapy through the other stuff, to declutter ...

[Helene2013]

Interesting to read you all!

And OMG...at dinner at the restaurant tonight, was reading some of your replies. Told Hubby we should go to Home Depot and get some of those perforated panels so I can do some tidying up this weekend while he is working on our snowtires. I figured he'd freak out (as he does when I talk about de-cluttering - as he sees nothing wrong! Deuh!). But not only did he agree to get there, we also bought all the hooks and other things to hang on those. Wow!!! I think he's fed up hearing me talk about it so probably saying: let her do the job then we'll move on to other things. haha

War is not over yet, but I won a huge battle. I think I'll take pics just to show him how that workshop was mess before I put my nose into it. hihi

[Jolt]

I also like the idea in principle but find it hard in practice. Some of this has to do with the fact that I enjoy lots of activities and each comes with a certain amount of gear (though there is some overlap) so that is one way I end up having what feels like too much stuff. I am also the kind of person who likes to be prepared for a variety of situations, and this can also lead to accumulating stuff that gets used only rarely--it's always a battle between the desire to be prepared for things that come up vs. the desire to keep the amount of stuff under control. Usually every year or two I get sick of clutter and get rid of some things I haven't used in a long time, but it would be nice to not get to that point in the first place!

[nuliajuk]

I'm wrestling with this right now. Some of the stuff I'm trying to sell isn't moving, despite being in perfectly good condition. It seems people would just rather buy new.
On the other hand, I recently bought a carpet shampoo machine because I was tired of lugging home the rentals, finding they weren't completely clean from the last renter, and then having to race to shampoo every rug and carpet in time to get the machine back on time. It was worth it to me to be able to clean when I wanted to and even just do one carpet at a time if need be. And of course, it gets done more often. So, for that reason - and the fact that it was on sale for half price - it was worth buying.
My husband is a bit of a packrat, it's about the only thing we ever have arguments about. I used to be, but my shopping habits were drastically changed when I volunteered for an annual charity rummage sale three or four years in a row. The first year I put on my change apron, walked out into the sale, and looked at tables and tables piled high with donations. The thought that ran through my mind was "Wow, this is how we live in North America. We have so much stuff that we have to give it away to keep from drowning in it." It changed the way I shop. I look at non-essential items and ask myself if I'll use it often enough to justify buying it. Things like seasonal ornaments, I buy at thrift shops and then re-donate. When I see knick-knacks in places like Winners (T.J. Maxx in the 'States) I wonder how long it will be before I see it in a yard sale or thrift store.

[ny biker]

I'm wrestling with this right now. Some of the stuff I'm trying to sell isn't moving, despite being in perfectly good condition. It seems people would just rather buy new.
On the other hand, I recently bought a carpet shampoo machine because I was tired of lugging home the rentals, finding they weren't completely clean from the last renter, and then having to race to shampoo every rug and carpet in time to get the machine back on time. It was worth it to me to be able to clean when I wanted to and even just do one carpet at a time if need be. And of course, it gets done more often. So, for that reason - and the fact that it was on sale for half price - it was worth buying.
My husband is a bit of a packrat, it's about the only thing we ever have arguments about. I used to be, but my shopping habits were drastically changed when I volunteered for an annual charity rummage sale three or four years in a row. The first year I put on my change apron, walked out into the sale, and looked at tables and tables piled high with donations. The thought that ran through my mind was "Wow, this is how we live in North America. We have so much stuff that we have to give it away to keep from drowning in it." It changed the way I shop. I look at non-essential items and ask myself if I'll use it often enough to justify buying it. Things like seasonal ornaments, I buy at thrift shops and then re-donate. When I see knick-knacks in places like Winners (T.J. Maxx in the 'States) I wonder how long it will be before I see it in a yard sale or thrift store.

It can also be hard to donate some stuff, especially furniture. Many charities won't accept it because they will have trouble re-selling it. There is a group down here that takes furniture and household items to give to people who are transitioning from homeless shelters to apartments, but they have very limited storage space so they will only take furniture if they know they have a current use for it.

[OakLeaf]

Or just put it on the curb on large item collection day. Pickers go through the night before, or early in the morning, and take anything usable or restorable, anywhere I've lived.

[ny biker]

Or just put it on the curb on large item collection day. Pickers go through the night before, or early in the morning, and take anything usable or restorable, anywhere I've lived.

Yes we have large trash pickup once a week here, and sometimes people will take the usable stuff before the garbage trucks arrive.

[Crankin]

We have an agency that takes donations of all household goods, including furniture. They have a large warehouse in the neighboring town. It's for anyone that can prove need, not just people transitioning from shelters. I've written letters for a couple of clients. Also, I know quite a few people who volunteer there.
Nuliajuk, we have quite a few household items/tools like the rug cleaning machine, because it's easier for DH to do it himself. Personally, I would pay for people to do anything, but, I am totally useless when it comes to mechanical things/fixing stuff/operating machinery. DH even has a tool to help him do the snow tires on his giant SUV, but in the spring I heard him grumbling it might be time to start taking it to the tire place. None of this stuff is in the way, though, and some will go when we move. We sold our tractor mower for a 1.00 to a neighbor who fixed it up, when we moved to this house. It was broken, we hadn't used it for years, as we had gardeners, and this house has no lawn, thankfully.