I meant the cheese more than fruit, because let's face it, if you're indulging, who is happy with the serving size of just one ounce. More like having three or 4 different cheeses at one ounce each. from another funny judgmental perspective, on the times I've taken my assistant out she will be judgmental about that same fruit and cheese tray -- but because its very expensive (not because of its dietary makeup). But I guess the point is taken -- there are lots of things to be judgmental about (including towards thin people) so maybe its best just to keep our comments to ourselves. Wouldn't the world be so much better! (FYI, that's the conversation I had with my 13 year old yesterday at lunch. Too bad more mothers don't have that conversation).