Quote Originally Posted by Crankin View Post
I was just being honest. I know people will disagree with what I said, but all of this discussion is nothing compared to what I hear being spoken in real life. Let's face it, people are judged all of the time on physical appearance. You may disagree with this, but it happens all the time in the business world.
Crankin - I didn't think you were out of line in this thread - I was just pointing out that sometimes lifestyle and weight don't match. I think we agree on that point. I agree 100% about judgment on personal experience. I know for a fact I have been a victim of it. I have significant interviews coming up this fall and I'm worried about it. One friend (just before feeding me a very unhealthy dinner I picked at and ate salad when I got home) very unhelpfully stated that I would likely not be accepted into the programs I'm interviewing for because of my weight. I just hope that others can be a bit more aware of it, and try not to make assumptions and judgments.

Veronica- You are a constant source of inspiration to me. I appreciate those who a) know all of the facts (as you do with your siblings) and b) truly care about the health issues (as you obviously do). I think that's rare, sadly.

For the record, I haven't given up because I know my weight is bad for me. I am constantly tweaking and trying to figure out what else might help (different exercise, more exercise, different balances of nutrients, etc.). Specific helpful advice is always welcome. Gross generalizations about one choice without taking the time to know more are not.

I hope I get to meet both of you in real life one day.