Saying nothing, not doing much is abit difficult

[PamNY]

I'm certain half of her problem is eating at restaurants and never prepping any meal at home.

Wait, what -- her "problem?" What exactly is her problem? You describe her as an honest, pragmatic person with natural mechanical skills (something I envy). She golfs with friends, travels, enjoys kayaking, and knows a lot about cycling. Sounds like someone I'd like to meet (as long as there's not too much discussion about golf, but I digress).

I can't figure out how to express this politely so I will just say it -- such importance being attached to this woman's weight is disturbing to me.