Wow, xrayted. I'm sorry for the challenge life has brought you lately, but what a great, positive outlook you have! I wish I had an ounce of your resilience. I went through a hard breakup myself about 6 months ago and am still picking up the pieces. Your post gives me faith that there is a way out. Good for you for discovering yourself and not feeling that you need someone there to keep you compnay!

Hugs to you, and keep on keepin' on.