If no other part of your groin/butt area hurts other than your sit bones, then you are pretty lucky. Most likely, after 2months of riding, your sit bones shouldn't hurt anymore after riding 10 miles. If it does, then I would re-evaluate your saddle choice. Personally, it took me around 2months in the beginning (plus, I think that my saddle finally softened up a little) and, now, when I don't ride for a week, it takes 1-2 weeks of riding for my sit bones to not hurt again.
Personally, I like having chamois padding and I feel like it helps greatly with my sit bone pain. But everyone is different.
2014 Liv Lust
2013 Specialized Fate Expert with carbon wheelset (sold)
2012 Specialized Amira Elite
2010 Santa Cruz Juliana with R kit and Crampon pedals (sold)
2011 Specialized Ariel Sport,suspension post,Serfas Rx Women's Microfiber saddle (sold)