I have two cats, but most of my teeth (I'm missing two molars congenitally - my mom and grandmom don't have them either)

I hated my hair as a kid too - from about the time I was a teenager it was just wild and frizzy/wavy. I had it very short for a long time. Now I've discovered the joys of no shampoo..... I have thick, dry, curly hair. I stopped using shampoo completely a couple of years ago and now just use conditioner and do a salt scrub for my scalp every week or so. Works wonders for my hair type. I use a little Uncle Harry's as leave in conditioner/gel. It's one of the only things I've been able to find with no silicone, which doesn't do much for my hair and won't wash out with just water. My white hairs that are coming in unfortunately don't appear to be curly so much as thick and kinky. I'm not sure they'll be tameable.