- Gray 2010 carbon WSD road bike, Rivet Independence saddle
- Red hardtail 26" aluminum mountain bike, Bontrager Evoke WSD saddle
- Royal blue 2018 aluminum gravel bike, Rivet Pearl saddle
Gone but not forgotten:
- Silver 2003 aluminum road bike
- Two awesome worn out Juliana saddles
I'm the one who owes apologies to those I offended. Guess its my insecurity in never learned to use make-up. Please accept my apology for my offensive comment. Sometimes, I lack social grace and say the wrong thing.
Sincerely,
I've been listening to Laura Nyro all night as I work on some photos....
"from the mothers of the moon
goodnight, children
we are dancers
sweepers
bookkeepers
for walks and talks
through rain, wind, sun, star
women of the one world
dancers sweepers bookkeepers
women of the one world
one world"
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‘The negative feelings we all have can be addictive…just as the positive…it’s up to
us to decide which ones we want to choose and feed”… Pema Chodron
Rebecca, that was beautiful :-)
I will admit that I used to be one of those who looked down on women for being (what I considered) overly vain. I sincerely hope I'm past that now. I would add that even though I don't use make-up daily and never for exercise, I love dressing to the nines for a special occasion, floor-length gown, high heels, as much make-up as I can get away with, jewelry, the lot.
But, ya know, when I pick up a magazine and read an article that in not so many words basically tells me that "a woman should always look her best", or "what you look like is a lot more important than what you can do", or "old is ugly, and old is more than 30"... I can't help getting a bit prickly. There is a huge industry out there very happy to prey on our insecurities, and blow them out of proportions, and I hate that.
I hope I'm not offending anyone personally when I rail against prevailing norms, because I don't mean to. I just feel that they are unfair and constraining. And especially when I'm out there doing my favourite sporting activities I want the freedom to look "ugly" if I want to. But I don't mean to convey any feeling of superiority, we're all vain in some way or another.
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Winter riding is much less about badassery and much more about bundle-uppery. - malkin
1995 Kona Cinder Cone commuterFrankenbike/Selle Italia SLR Lady Gel Flow
2008 white Nakamura Summit Custom mtb/Terry Falcon X
2000 Schwinn Fastback Comp road bike/Specialized Jett
whether someone wears make up or not does not matter to me. Same with hair color etc. It's not for me, but if it works for someone else, great. I do have an issue with perfume. It makes me have to leave the room and grab my inhaler. I have had to leave the building after someone with perfume has come into my office, leaving the office manager to set up a fan and let me know when it's ok to come back.
2013 Specialized Myka FSR Comp
2013 Specialized Ruby Sport (carbon)
2014 Salsa Vaya 3 (steel)
2014 Felt Z75
Like others, I don't apply makeup to workout but if I'm already wearing it, I don't take it off, either. If I was really made up, I'd probably remove it before swimming just to be kind to the pool, but I hardly wear much anyway.
Bobbi Brown smudge-proof mascara doesn't run, FYI. I wore it for my wedding, bawled like a baby and never had raccoon eyes.
I was thinking about this thread as I was getting ready this morning and it occurred to me that I never worry about what I look like after biking. I guess that's because with glasses and a baseball hat, you can hardly see my face anyway. Honestly, in comparison to how I look after swimming (ie, AWFUL - goggles are not kind to me!), I'm flat out gorgeous after biking or running! :P
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