My DIL's father passed away this morning. I know this sounds strange, but I am really proud of my son, for taking on the lion's share of dealing with his short and terrible illness, as well as finding social services for his MIL. Such dysfunction there. They held their boundaries and this woman will not be moving in with them. We haven't seen them since Father's Day because of this, and are looking forward to seeing them this weekend. There isn't going to be any service, so I hope their life can get back to normal.