Hi there,

why not practice wearing your lycra commando around the house so you get used to the feel?

Or, buy some biking uderwear, and baggie shorts with no chamois to go over the top - this is what I do.

Don't try wearing a g-string under your lycra though, a friend of mine new to biking did this (she thought i was joking about the commando thing!) -the places she got blisters make me wince thinking about it.... Ouch!