{{{Blueberry}}} so sorry to read about the tragic loss of your friend.

My past path in life has been a bit...different in many ways. I've been working hard on letting go of the past, accepting it for what it was and recognizing the current "me" is a result of that past. If my past had been different then the Catrin today would likely also be different. So am working hard (and have for some time) to let all of that go and focusing on finding out what happiness means to me - now, in this place.

Thank you for the reminders! As my group coach tells us sometimes: "Learn like you will live forever, live like this is our last day".