With that chamois, there should be some of the blue part along your inner thighs. But the most padded part should be between your legs.
I actually don't know if the chamois gets bigger or smaller as the shorts get bigger or smaller. Did you buy them from TE? If so you can call them and talk to them about how the 3x fit and whether a smaller size or different style would be better.
- Gray 2010 carbon WSD road bike, Rivet Independence saddle
- Red hardtail 26" aluminum mountain bike, Bontrager Evoke WSD saddle
- Royal blue 2018 aluminum gravel bike, Rivet Pearl saddle
Gone but not forgotten:
- Silver 2003 aluminum road bike
- Two awesome worn out Juliana saddles